She attended the Las Vegas Academy of International Studies, Performing and Visual Arts, where she developed her passion for acting. Following high school, she honed her craft at the Juilliard School in New York City, one of the most prestigious performing arts institutions in the United States.

Relationship with Jacob Fishell

While studying at Juilliard, Rutina Wesley met fellow student Jacob Fishell, an aspiring actor. The two formed a close bond during their time in school and later began dating. After several years together, they decided to marry, believing they had built a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.

Fishell, known for his work in theater and occasional guest appearances on television, was supportive of Wesley’s career. Their shared background in acting allowed them to relate to each other's professional challenges and achievements. At the time, the couple often spoke about how their mutual understanding stemmed from their similar career paths.

Marriage and Divorce

In interviews, Wesley described Fishell as a compassionate, talented, and grounded individual. She once referred to him as one of the "most astonishing human beings" she had ever met. Their marriage, which lasted for eight years, was initially happy and marked by shared experiences, including balancing their demanding careers with personal time.

However, as time went on, difficulties in the relationship began to surface. Despite their strong start, Wesley and Fishell encountered challenges they couldn't resolve. Eventually, Wesley made the decision to end the marriage. There were no reports of attempts at marital counseling prior to their split. Fishell reportedly regretted the abrupt end to their relationship.

On August 16, 2013, Rutina Wesley officially filed for divorce, citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the separation. The couple had been married since 2005. The divorce marked a turning point in Wesley’s personal life.